Archive for May, 2007


If a job is worth doing, it is worth doing right the first time!

“If a job is worth doing, it is worth doing right.” I can’t tell you how many times I heard this a kid growing up. My dad would go into a lecture about how his grandfather said this to him as a kid and it was his mantra on why I need to do a good job.

My dad was a self taught jack-of-all-trades. He did not get a high school diploma because, in the early 60’s, teachers were not as concerned about giving all the students an opportunity to attend college, only the ones that excelled or had money. Dad did not excell at classroom work and his family was not wealth. He liked to keep busy with his hands. He loved to build things.

He went to a small school in Ohio and when the janitor needed someone to fix something he would pull my dad out of class to make the repair. Of course, with his motto above ingrained, when the school asked he delivered. He was trained that way. His parents got angry with the school because they were using him for free labor so they pulled him out of school.

At the age of 17 my dad went into business with his brother running a gas station. He never worked for anyone his entire life (unless you count the school, but he didn’t get paid). His gas station turned into a used car lot and autobody shop. Then they bought a dozier and some heavy equipment and he started working in the oil field. He observed and asked lots of questions and he built an oil rig. Dad ended his career in the oil field after drilling hundreds of oil wells.

Dad was a busy man. I didn’t see much of him as child. He didn’t attend school functions or sporting events, that was normal. When he did attend a function it was a little weird. He didn’t usually hand out discipline or oversee daily chores. When he did it was memorable. Dad would come in the room to inspect the job done. He would give it the “white glove” test, if you will. We usually never passed. After looking over the job the lecture would begin. “You know when I was kid my grandpa always said … ‘If a job is worth doing it is worth doing right’. Now get in here and clean these corners, wipe the mirror …”

Dad was right, Great-Grandpa was right, a job worth doing is a job worth doing right! Over the years I have ingrained this motto in my work ethic.

Here are a few tips to help you do a new job right the first time.

  • Take your time and learn as much as you can before you even start a new job. This means research, read textbooks, how to books, Google it!
  • Do not be afraid to ask questions. You will have to do the job over if you don’t make sure you understand what the job entails.
  • When you complete the job do a self inspection. Be critical of your job and try to view it through someone else’s eyes.
  • Embrace a new job as an opportunity to grow as a person!

I hope you enjoyed my Dad-ism. As I stated in my post Isn’t Everyday Everyday Memorial Day? I have Dad-ism’s for many occassions. I am looking forward to sharing them with you, Dad would want me to.

Humidity Sucks!!

After all this time, why can’t the human body adjust to humidity?

When it is humid and hot I am no good. My brain slows down to a crawl, my body wants to stay still, sleep. I am miserable. We will have more humid days during the summer than perfect summer days (days with no humidity).

Just think if our bodies were built for humidity we would have more perfect summer days than miserable days. What would a miserable day be? A rainy day? Or maybe a cool day or cloudy day?

I love summer but I strongly dislike humidity at any temperature. I don’t have air conditioning in my home or my work so I spend most of the summer feeling lethargic and slow.

Yea summer!

Isn’t Everyday Memorial Day?

It is nice to have a day a year set aside to officially remember those we have lost. On Memorial Day folks head to the cemetary to place flowers on the grave site of a loved one. Many people have a ritual. They clean the stone, pull or trim the grass. Maybe they take a gift for the love one. On that day their memories of the loved one are strong. They feel sad, happy, loss, blessed. They remember good times, happy times and so much more.

I know because I have lost loved ones. Three years ago I lost my father quite suddenly. So, not just on Memorial Day, the above thoughts and feelings run through me. My dad was (is) a bright star. I am so fortunate that we made many memories. In fact I have volumes of memories to recall everyday. I have an appropriate “Dad-ism” for every occassion. Those memories can be bitter sweet. I never thought I could feel happy and sad at the same time. Dad can still make me laugh but I miss him and that makes me sad.

This morning before I woke up I saw Dad in a dream. It was nothing particular but it made me feel like he is close by today on this Memorial Day. I believe he is always close by but today he showed me.

Everyday is Memorial Day for me. Everyday I remember my loved ones lost. I know that a cemetary doesn’t hold my loved ones. They are with me all the time. They are a part of me.

The toddler has taken a few steps

Well, I took a few steps yesterday. I was able to get my blog set up. : ) I edited the first post and wrote a new one. Wow! By the end of the day I felt like things were really starting to click. In the evening I continued reading “Blogging for Dummies”.

A week ago I felt overwhelmed with the information that I was taking in. Today it is coming together. I as I stated in yesterday’s post, these first posts are not going to be terribly interesting as I am just get used to the routine. I have many great topics and ideas planned for my blog. I don’t want to waste good information on these first posts. They are like practice pitches.

I am planning to share the information I have learned over the past week. It has been extremely useful. There are many blogs out there with great information and resources about starting a blog. They give you tips on what to expect, what to do when you have writers block. What to do before you even start. I have found the the information for free. I was telling my husband yesterday that it is like I’ve taken a 10 week course on blogging in one week! The information available is very valuable to the preblogger!

Here are a couple of the sites I have visited and found very helpful …
www.stevepavlina.com
www.problogger.com

I have me much more to learn about tags, links, blogrolls, etc. So, I am going to hit the books. TTFN!

Back to School

Over the past few weeks I have been learning everything I can about blogging. Everyone makes it sound easy but at times I am not sure if I am getting it. I am looking forward to looking back on the “beginging” with a laugh but I am not laughing right now.

Of course, I can’t do this the easy way and go through a hosted blog site. I am learning from the ground up, creating a web site, etc. It will be better later, right?

I am using (and learning) Wordpress. So far I like it, the instructions are helpful. It is the blogging/programming jargon that is controlling the learning curve but it is exciting to learn something new. It is like going back to school or starting a new job except I don’t really have a teacher.

I apologize if my first posts are not very exciting. I feel like a toddler learning to walk. I am standing but the minute I take a step I fall on my butt.

Does anyone have any tips for getting started? I would love to hear from you.