The Cure for Negative Thinking!
Staying positive can be a huge challenge in the world we live in. Sometimes you may feel like it doesn’t matter what you do you aren’t going to win, you will always be poor, you will always be single, or just unhappy. You turn on the tv only to see bad news, sad news, disgusting news, not much good news.
Well, you are right. If you believe you will never be happy, you will never be happy. You manifest your life through your thoughts and beliefs. When you take on a new challenge and you say, “I can’t do this. I know I am going to mess up. I know I am going make a fool of myself. I am going to fail.” You are preparing yourself for failure before you start and you will do exactly what you are telling yourself to do.
When you say,”I will never find my true love. I am too old. It is too late in my life to find a lasting relationship.” You will not find a true love because even if your perfect match is right around the corner you will not be looking.
Maybe you tell yourself you are just being realistic. You don’t want to get your hopes up to only fail. We have a million excuses as to why this line of thinking is normal and good but it is toxic. It is a disease because once you start it is hard to stop. When you can’t stop your attitude about life only gets worse. Soon you won’t even want to get out bed, why bother life isn’t going to get any better.
See how deadly this thinking is? You may already be plagued with these thoughts. Well, there aren’t any pills or expensive treatments to help you. The good news is you can get better by changing your thinking. Change your attitude. Believe! Believe that you can do anything. Believe that this life is good! No, this life is great!
You can read hundreds of books out there about how to change your attitude. I have read hundreds of these books. They are all very good books but unless you tell yourself you must change your thinking the books will not help. You must make a plan and YOU must follow it. If YOU do not make the changes in your thinking and in your life your relationships will not get better. You bank account probably will not improve, and you will not find the perfect job.
If you are in the beginning stages of wanting to change your life I would like to share a few of the books I have read that I found very helpful. All of these books require YOU to change your thinking pattern. It is not a quick fix but if you want to have a better life it is the best investment of time and energy you will ever make in your life. I wish you great luck. You deserve the very best from this life … you must believe that!!
Here are some reviews of the books I recommend:
- Don’t Worry, Make Money by Richard Carlson
- Your best life Now by Joel Osteen
- The Success Principles(TM): How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be by Jack Canfield and Janet Switzer
- The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale
These are great books, if you haven’t already read them I recommend visiting your local library and borrowing them. Enjoy! Choose the path of happiness.
Stumble it!
June 7th, 2007 at 12:19 pm
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